WARNING: THIS POST CONTAINS VERY SENSITIVE SUBJECT MATTER REGARDING RELIGION. IF YOU ARE AT ALL UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THAT STOP READING NOW.
I've been thinking about writing about something for quite some time. I haven't because it is sensitive subject matter and I don't enjoy confrontation. Especially from people I love, admire, and respect. I know that many people react to such things with sadness and even anger as I too have been on the other side of it. However, in my attempt to be my newly found authentic self I have decided to let the world (or the very small amount of people who still read my blog) know the truth. How you choose to accept this information is up to you, but ultimately it is our decision to make for our family. This path of life was chosen after much soul searching and is what makes sense for our individual family. Believe me, this decision was not taken lightly and only came after years of struggling.
Back in August of 2014 our family decided to leave the LDS church. It had been an especially hard year before coming to this decision, with many realizations, shed tears, sleepless nights, and fear. I don't want to get into details as it is a slippery slope, but it was a devastating time for Scott and myself as the foundation upon which we built our lives crumbled beneath our feet.
We have nothing against any members of the church. We actually love and adore more members than we can count, and don't believe that being member of the LDS church is wrong. It is just best for our family to no longer be associated with it because of some things that don't align with our own moral character.
It is not our intention to "lead others astray", cause any hurt feelings or make situations with our LDS friends and families awkward. This is just where we are in life. Take it or leave it. In the end we have to make decisions that we feel are best for our family, and this decision has definitely made our family happier. It is my hope that those we love can respect our decisions and love us despite being disappointed. Because we still love you all like we always have.
Good luck on your own journey!
Monday, June 15, 2015
Big changes for these Brunsons
Posted by Rochelle Brunson at 7:12 PM
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2 comments:
Thanks for your candor and honesty. That was very well said. While the news does make me sad, I wish nothing but the best for you and your family. I hope you will continue to blog. I love hearing about the adventures and growth of your family.
That must have been hard to write! We love you. Although I feel sad, I am glad that your family is finding peace together.
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